My Response Series | We Are All Here

Remind yourself of who you are, you are your own mom. You get to love yourself through this, that sweet girl. That girl from 5 years ago, 10 years ago. The one you are protecting. The one from 20 years ago. We are all here. You are every version of yourself right now past present and future. And they love you and want you to know you are worth fighting for!!

My Response Series | Love Bombing

The “abuse” comes from the pattern: extreme positive stimulation followed by withdrawal, neglect, or return to baseline, leaving the target emotionally unbalanced. Even if the follow-up isn’t overtly hostile, the mismatch between the initial intensity and the later normalcy can create confusion, anxiety, and a sense of emotional debt.. making it inherently manipulative

My Response Series | You Can’t Do It For Him

Boundaries protect your peace. Let us teach ourselves and our children that real love shows up with consistency, not convenience.

My Response Series | When is Someone’s Temper Enough to Call it Quits?

An insecure man will resent you for caring, resent you for understanding and resent you for not being equally or more insecure than him.

My Response Series | Self-Love vs Selfishness

Self-love involves healthy boundaries and self-respect, whereas selfishness often involves disregarding others’ feelings or needs.

My Response Series | A Critical Spirit Will Never Hear You

A critical spirit lives in the inflated ego and an active avoidance of self awareness, self-reflection and self acceptance.

By their fruits you will know them. A self deprecator, a self-saboteur who likes to sabotage others, someone who is the greatest victim of all, a victim of everything and everyone.