Remind yourself of who you are, you are your own mom. You get to love yourself through this, that sweet girl. That girl from 5 years ago, 10 years ago. The one you are protecting. The one from 20 years ago. We are all here. You are every version of yourself right now past present and future. And they love you and want you to know you are worth fighting for!!
Tag Archives: confusing relationships
My Response Series | Love Bombing
The “abuse” comes from the pattern: extreme positive stimulation followed by withdrawal, neglect, or return to baseline, leaving the target emotionally unbalanced. Even if the follow-up isn’t overtly hostile, the mismatch between the initial intensity and the later normalcy can create confusion, anxiety, and a sense of emotional debt.. making it inherently manipulative
My Response Series | You Can’t Do It For Him
Boundaries protect your peace. Let us teach ourselves and our children that real love shows up with consistency, not convenience.
My Response Series | When is Someone’s Temper Enough to Call it Quits?
An insecure man will resent you for caring, resent you for understanding and resent you for not being equally or more insecure than him.
My Response Series | Why Do The Wicked Prosper
They will reap grievously what they’ve sown, and some will not repent in this life. That is a tragedy in and of itself.
My Response Series | Self-Love vs Selfishness
Self-love involves healthy boundaries and self-respect, whereas selfishness often involves disregarding others’ feelings or needs.
My Response Series | Entitled Husband & “Crazy” Wife Dynamic
“No one is perfect” – Husbands attempt to gaslight his horrible behavior as his Wife simpling being unrealistic in her expectations of him.
My Response Series | “My Ex Is Crazy”
How someone talks about someone is telling.
Someone who is unwilling to meet their partner’s emotional needs or engage in constructive communication is unsafe.
My Response Series | Can Marriage be an Idol?
Live in the confidence knowing that in Jesus Christ is where lies your true identity, not in other peoples opinions or definitions or the idolization of marriage!
My Response Series | A Critical Spirit Will Never Hear You
A critical spirit lives in the inflated ego and an active avoidance of self awareness, self-reflection and self acceptance.
By their fruits you will know them. A self deprecator, a self-saboteur who likes to sabotage others, someone who is the greatest victim of all, a victim of everything and everyone.