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When someone does something to you (you were there, don’t dismiss your experience), then comes to “apologize” saying (example, insert anything where the word rejected is) ”I’m sorry if I rejected you……” — respond with “did you do that to me?” (Not “did you mean to do that to me” because, we all mean what we do whether we want to admit it or not. We don’t want some of the consequences.)( they said “if”, which indicates they aren’t apologizing for anything they did – they are apologizing for appearances & even if they don’t say if, still ask. They will tell on themself.)
If they respond with “No.” —— walk away!
They did it, knew it enough to feign apology, and when confronted they denied doing it.
Toxic and unhealthy people want you stressing and dependent on them.
We don’t need closure, when nothing was open to begin with.
RUN! 🏃🏼♀️🏃🏼♀️🏃🏼♀️🏃🏼♀️🏃🏼♀️
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Hey! My name is Hannah. I’m excited to share some companies who have listed work at home positions. Listings go quick, especially non-phone gigs, so RUNNNN when you see what you want. Much love in your search.
Here, you will find ways to make money working from the comfort of your home. The jobs listed on this blog are: customer service, phone, data entry, research, transcription, chat and so much more. All jobs and companies have been researched and are legit. Although these leads have been researched, please still do your own due diligence and research the company yourself before proceeding.
Omni Interactions – Wonderful company. There are gigs listed often and some are long term gigs; while there are also others that are short term. It’s a wonderful place to get consistent work. Phone and non-phone gigs. Up to 40 hours is usually available on average and between $14 and $20 an hour depending on Metric requirements and hour requirements to attain increased pay. Hardwire is required with Ethernet.
Arise Platform – it’s a platform that gives you access to multiple clients to choose from. Ranging from phones to non-phones. Pay is between $12 and $15. You do pay for training, as it’s seen as an investment. You use a software that’s called ASD, which does detect if you have Wi-Fi on. You have to be hardwired with Ethernet for these clients.
Repeated exposure of chronic lies, hidden sexual addictions, unearthed financial indiscretions, and many other secret, deviant behaviors can knock a victim of psychological abuse off their feet, sending them tumbling down a proverbial rabbit hole time and time again. Except she isn’t Alice and her marriage is anything but Wonderland. The pattern of two steps forward and ten steps back is seemingly endless as the relative quiet that usually follows a supposed relational breakthrough is often short-lived before more turbulence resumes and the pattern starts over. Without clarity and removing the root issue of abuse, problems continue to spring up at full force like overgrown weeds after a rainstorm, so that a victim chronically cycles between the dangling carrot of hope and the slippery downward spiral of a trauma-induced black hole. How, then, can a woman know if her husband’s profession of change is real or if it’s just another ploy to keep her trapped in the web of narcissistic abuse? Though not an all-encompassing picture, below are some ways you can identify true repentance.
Someone needs to read this (Article at the bottom of page). I sure did. ♥️ Gods timing really is the best timing. Even when everything is falling apart around you, remember this piece of truth. —this whole passage is beautiful and powerful.
A father of the fatherless, and a judge of the widows,
Is God in his holy habitation. God setteth the solitary in families: He bringeth out those which are bound with chains: But the rebellious dwell in a dry land.
O God, when thou wentest forth before thy people, When thou didst march through the wilderness; Selah:
The earth shook, the heavens also dropped at the presence of God: Even Sinai itself was moved At the presence of God, the God of Israel.
Thou, O God, didst send a plentiful rain, whereby thou didst confirm thine inheritance, When it was weary.” Psalm 68:5-9 KJV
This is very important information packed in here. I am highly impressed with the amount of examples given. I really love your ministry and I feel the young girls who need to read this before dating, won’t get a chance. Because it’s just not something ever shared, at least not in any Christian circles I grew up in.
Men and women a like can harbor these toxic mindsets that can be so malignant. I’m thankful I came across this article, thank you for sharing!
This resonated with me —
Excerpt “They would have to confront their toxic thoughts regarding women and undo the mindset that they are a possession to use and control for their own selfish gain. It would require them to confront their ingrained toxic mindsets, take responsibility, and stop viewing themselves as the victim of unfair treatment.”
— in my own healing journey and self reflection, I have been able to pin point root false beliefs in my own self and toxic thought patterns. Ultimately keeping myself in patterns that were destructive, so this here is powerful for healing too from just not knowing that what you believed was false and harmful to yourself. ♥️
Taking care of yourself spiritually and nourishing yourself, will bring you such healing. You will see things in a way that won’t make sense to people who only see your problems. Some people mean well and some don’t. Pray for discernment in your future and present relationships. Women & Men alike ♥️
Much love to all who just didn’t know and are healing. ♥️
Esther Company – Repeated exposure of chronic lies, hidden sexual addictions, unearthed financial indiscretions, and many other secret, deviant behaviors can knock a victim of psychological abuse off their feet, sending them tumbling down a proverbial rabbit hole time and time again. Except she isn’t Alice and her marriage is anything but Wonderland. The pattern of two steps forward and ten steps back is seemingly endless as the relative quiet that usually follows a supposed relational breakthrough is often short-lived before more turbulence resumes and the pattern starts over. Without clarity and removing the root issue of abuse, problems continue to spring up at full force like overgrown weeds after a rainstorm, so that a victim chronically cycles between the dangling carrot of hope and the slippery downward spiral of a trauma-induced black hole. How, then, can a woman know if her husband’s profession of change is real or if it’s just another ploy to keep her trapped in the web of narcissistic abuse? Though not an all-encompassing picture, below are some ways you can identify true repentance.
Hey! My name is Hannah. Some people just don’t realize their behavior/actions are abusive. However, once the person is made privy to the impact their behavior has — that will be a good indicator on their desire to continue in damaging behavior or has true heart change.
No one says you should reconcile with the person who bombs a building due to their false beliefs. They are guilty and dangerous and stay away from them, is likely what you’d hear.
Forgiveness and Reconciliation are NOT synonymous, look it up. Forgiveness is between You and God.
If you’re like me, you will prefer to listen instead of read. You can listen here. Recorded 08/10/2022
You become like the god you worship. You become like the people you are around the most. Protect what God has given you to steward. Protect your peace!
Me ♥️
I think it’s powerful to understand that just because someone admits fault, does not equal remorse or even the intent to grow/change. Shame for one’s actions isn’t equal to desire to do the work that results in heart change. Shame is a natural consequence for bad choices, it’s what we do with that shame that makes the difference.
I spent such a big part of my life in resent toward anything related to God due to the view of God I was fed growing up. The quid pro quo God (do good here to get goodies in heaven. The reward/punishment based rebuke that creates an environment of pride and shame, depending on how you measure your worthiness in your good doings — always feeling not good enough or the need to be “braggy” just to prove, I did something for God), the abusive God (you deserve to suffer, enjoy it, because I can’t love you until you’re perfect – so I’ll scream and yell at you until you submit to my will – but don’t forget I love you), the hypocritical God (the only way you can have relationship/bonding, is if you talk bad about others, else you’re rejected for rejecting what I want), the “like-Christ loved” God (marriage is to hate each other or one’s own self long enough to celebrate how long they were able to endure the misery of “loving like Christ” — because “God hates divorce more than he hates sinning against one another” — oh and I’m doing this for the kids, because kids need two parents.. who hate one another, screaming, yelling, throwing everything everywhere. Covering up huge sins that should have been brought to light, but to “protect” the kids, it wasn’t.). And last but not least, the weaponized God (you’re not in Gods will if you aren’t doing what I say (don’t talk about what happens at home), you are apart of the problem, if you aren’t doing what I tell you to do. — Bible verse to prove that my way is best, and you are wrong. Forced into living a double life as a child. Hypocrites.)
He that loveth not knoweth not God; for God is love.
1 John 4:8 KJV
And we have known and believed the love that God hath to us. God is love; and he that dwelleth in love dwelleth in God, and God in him.
1 John 4:16 KJV
Jesus did not come here to condemn.
For God sent not his Son into the world to condemn the world; but that the world through him might be saved.
John 3:17 KJV
—— if you’ve gotten this far, you’re probably thinking, goodness Hannah – that’s a lot for a Tuesday. And you just said not to condemn, but now you’re moving on to 1 Cor 5:11… well friend – I am not here to condemn you, I’m here to show you that your actions will condemn you. Jesus is life and our sin nature is death. Live free my friends! ——
But now I have written unto you not to keep company, if any man that is called a brother be a fornicator, or covetous, or an idolater, or a railer, or a drunkard, or an extortioner; with such an one no not to eat.
1 Corinthians 5:11 KJV
Fornicator
For this is the will of God, even your sanctification, that ye should abstain from fornication:
1 Thessalonians 4:3 KJV
but I say unto you, That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart.
Matthew 5:28 KJV
a fornicator as someone who has sexual intercourse unmarried.
Merriam-Webster Dictionary
Covetous
For the wicked boasteth of his heart’s desire, And blesseth the covetous, whom the LORD abhorreth.
Psalm 10:3 KJV
having eyes full of adultery, and that cannot cease from sin; beguiling unstable souls: an heart they have exercised with covetous practices; cursed children:
2 Peter 2:14 KJV
Covetous is defined as marked by inordinate (exceeding reasonable limits ) desire for wealth or possessions or for another’s possessions.
Merriam-Webster Dictionary
Idolator
And they served their idols: Which were a snare unto them.
Psalm 106:36 KJV
Ye shall make you no idols nor graven image, neither rear you up a standing image, neither shall ye set up any image of stone in your land, to bow down unto it: for I am the LORD your God.
Leviticus 26:1 KJV
Idolator is defined as a worshipper of idols and a person that admires intensely and often blindly one that is not usually a subject of worship.
Merriam-Webster Dictionary
Railer
The only mention in the Bible is the verse 1 Cor 5:11 KJV listed above.
Railing is defined as to revile or scold in harsh, insolent, or abusive language.
Merriam-Webster Dictionary
Drunkard
For the drunkard and the glutton shall come to poverty: And drowsiness shall clothe a man with rags.
Proverbs 23:21 KJV
As a thorn goeth up into the hand of a drunkard, So is a parable in the mouth of fools.
Proverbs 26:9 KJV
Drunkard is defined as one who is habitually drunk (having the faculties impaired by alcohol; having a level of alcohol in the blood that exceeds a maximum prescribed by law; dominated by an intense feeling “drunk with rage”; relating to, caused by, or characterized by intoxication)
Merriam-Webster Dictionary
Extortioner
nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners, shall inherit the kingdom of God.
1 Corinthians 6:10 KJV
Let the extortioner catch all that he hath; And let the strangers spoil his labour.
Psalm 109:11 KJV
Extortioner is defined as one who practices extortion; to extort is defined as to obtain from a person by force, intimidation, or undue or illegal power
Merriam-Webster Dictionary
Some people don’t realize the implication of their actions.
What we say and do are a harvest of what has been sown in our heart. I intend to be vigilant to protect my mind, my children’s mind and protect my space, only allowing the love of God to influence my decisions. Because the alternative is to believe that we must earn Gods love and feel constant shame for never measuring up. That’s the work of the devil.
There hath no temptation taken you but such as is common to man: but God is faithful, who will not suffer you to be tempted above that ye are able; but will with the temptation also make a way to escape, that ye may be able to bear it.
1 Corinthians 10:13 KJV
God is Pro-Choice in that he gave you free will to choose. The devil takes what God creates for good and corrupts it; lying to you – making you feel as though you have no choice.
Studying the book of John, listen/read about the character of God through Jesus! It will open your eyes to who God is. ♥️ much love in your walk with Christ!
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Remind yourself of who you are, you are your own mom. You get to love yourself through this, that sweet girl. That girl from 5 years ago, 10 years ago. The one you are protecting. The one from 20 years ago. We are all here. You are every version of yourself right now past present and future. And they love you and want you to know you are worth fighting for!!
I can love my parents for who they are as human beings and Gods creation, while also recognizing the need to protect myself from their toxic behaviors by no longer allowing them access to me.
Loving my parents and choosing to distance myself from them are not mutually exclusive. I’m honoring myself and them by protecting myself, with the form of love that I needed in childhood, by reparenting myself, this balance allows me to move forward with a sense of integrity and self-respect, fostering a healthier and more fulfilling life.
The “abuse” comes from the pattern: extreme positive stimulation followed by withdrawal, neglect, or return to baseline, leaving the target emotionally unbalanced. Even if the follow-up isn’t overtly hostile, the mismatch between the initial intensity and the later normalcy can create confusion, anxiety, and a sense of emotional debt.. making it inherently manipulative
What does emotional freedom even mean? We are all experiencing circumstances through the lens of our own life experiences, childhood unhealed wounds, maturity level, intellect level, I mean ALL the variables. So, it’s practical to say, we ARE inevitably going to have disagreements. Of which should be met with patience, compassion and understanding. With the common goal to learn and work together, versus winning the disagreement and causing chaos, confusion and discord. When chaos, confusion and discord are the goal of one person, while the other person seeks mutual respect and grace with one another — it creates an environment of emotional neglect and betrayal.
Emotional freedom (not to be confused with acupuncture) is a spectrum of behaviors that provide you with the safety and reassurance you need in order to evaluate yourself — mostly verbally, but can manifest physically too — in order to process the thoughts or deep seeded beliefs for which are manifesting in emotion and feelings. We often self harbor until an eruption occurs, then become guilt ridden, feeling it will just be better to never work on ourselves and we just deny our experience to “keep the peace” — which is now perpetuated due to the self same cycle of isolate and dismiss. People who have been gaslight, projected on, silent treatment, stone walled, love bombed, hoovered, darvo and many other complex mental and spiritual and emotionally abusive behaviors — are very prone to blame themself (instantly feeling disoriented when reality and the façade created by the abuser(s)* clash) — when someone has experienced this twisting of reality, the need safe people who “GET IT” to help them with the ground work — people who are not capable of saving space for you to process your thoughts — ADVICE & JUDGMENT FREE — are not people we should share our vulnerable situations with. Emotional freedom is getting to the place where we feel comfortable to cry and get vulnerable and know what’s happening — free from the darvo is the ultimate emotional freedom, free from the addictive love bombing turned crazy-making reality shattering projection and gas-lighting — this emotional healing, it’s not free of pain, but it’s freedom and a journey worth taking. If you choose to stay or leave is your choice.
*If you are entangled (trapped, stuck, this is it) with a person who blames you for their behavior and you’ve found yourself feeling guilty. (This is emotional abuse, it’s a form of gaslightening called Darvo.) myself included didn’t and still have a hard time calling this abuse, so for definitional sake, I felt it important to remind — I put the *, because I made it plural for abuser(s). That is because in my experience, you will have a first and it doesn’t always mean intimate partners. You will also face flying monkeys. This is when you reach a stage of the cycle, where you are showing signs of no longer taking their BS, so they now need to in-list people who have been groomed to think they (the abuser) is the victim and come at you for being so abusive to the abuser (who they will defend to the death)… ie your kids, family of origin, your mutual friends.. the list goes on. Well meaning people, who otherwise feel they are doing the right thing, are being manipulated into abusing you further. It’s gutting really.
Dealing with our emotions can get messy, but it’s the work that needs time, dedication and patience. Save space for yourself to feel. Get vulnerable with yourself. Give yourself permission to be deep about your experiences and don’t be quick to judge yourself for feeling deeply.
Your experiences are real. What you feel shouldn’t be ignored. You are worth listening to and hearing.
Good question. For years I was stuck in a paralysis between wanting to invest and terrified of losing my money.
I even did all the non-money practice programs. Then Robinhood came out and it’s just really user friendly, and a great stepping stone to confidence in the world of shares, etfs, and dividends. Here’s a few companies I’m vested in and the return has been positive. I’ll also put details in for the companies who provide recurring dividends.
Disclosure – All investments involve risks, including the loss of principal. Past performance is no guarantee of future results. The provision of this information does not constitute investment advice or a recommendation of any security, transaction, account type, investment strategy involving securities, or order.
Companies I’m Sharing
Catalyst Pharmaceuticals (CPRX)
Aurinia Pharmaceuticals (AUPH)
Coca Cola (KO)
PepsiCo (PEP)
Research is key, I’ve provided as much info as possible for you to make informed decisions.
I’m passionate about passive income, but it’s not for the faint of heart. You need multiple streams of income to accomplish a stable and sustainable source of passive income.
Don’t assume this will get you rich quick, it’s an investment in one long term source based on your effort and research. No quick fixes here! Much love on your journey to financial freedom!
Here, you will find ways to make money working from the comfort of your home. The jobs listed on this blog are: customer service, phone, data entry, research, transcription, chat and so much more. All jobs and companies have been researched and are legit. Although these leads have been researched, please still do your own due diligence and research the company yourself before proceeding.
This episode 92 really helped me identify some of the behaviors I’ve experienced. Gas lighting is the topic of this. They touch base on more empowering things too, such as DARVO (which is a hyper focused type of gas lightening), which is pretty important and blew my mind learning about this.
This episode 165 has a anonymous listener record a question, it is pretty descriptive and describes our both same concerns to a literal T. I found it an encouragement and refreshing to know that not only am I not alone, I’m also not crazy. The crazy making that happens in the “petty arguments” that escalate beyond our own ability to understand, makes us feel things that aren’t easy to talk about much less comprehend fully. This episode touches base on the side effect of how this behavior can make us think we have no choices, and also talks about how we can choose to see ourself differently and what things mean. How do we know what is real and true. How do I know if my experience is real or not? Where we often ask ourself, is it me?
Resources and Encouragement while in a Confusing Relationship.
I highly recommend these and I did literally post all the episodes that impacted my mind, beliefs, and ultimately gave me the courage to simply not feel so much shame and guilt for someone else’s choices, taking control of what I can and holding firm to my newly established boundaries. Constantly dismissing my own feelings and experiences. Because the shame of it all is too overwhelming, especially when I grew up in a home where appearances were everything. I’m still learning and wanted everything in one place to keep me accountable and help other women be encouraged. On my website TheFamilyTreat.org/mommyhelp
Episode 160 is about how we think, learning how to process our thoughts and the difference between and the definitions needed to get some clarity in why we do certain things on auto pilot almost, and then beat ourself up for doing the same thing over and over even though we know how it’s going to end. In feeling guilty and shame.
Episode 62 is all about boundaries and how these boundaries are there to protect us. Then also how the person who habitually violates our boundaries is predicable in the ways they violate the boundaries. Some of the tactics don’t happen in the same order or even they aren’t happening yet, but once boundaries are being enforced more firmly. The violator of boundaries will begin changing how they gain your trust again and the cycle becomes even more covert and confusing. Establishing great mental skills from episode 160 will help in the establishment and enforcing boundaries.
Your experience is real and your feelings are valid. Dealing with trauma sounds dramatic, when you’ve been conditioned to believe that being traumatized is your own fault and something to feel shame and guilt for. Thus, you minimize your own experience, as result of this deeply imbedded belief that is hurting you further, keeping you inside of unhealthy and harmful situations.
What does financial freedom mean to you? How badly do you want it? How do you define financial freedom. I like to do the foot work and find some difficult things people want. One being work at home jobs. You can find a lot of companies on my page ”Job Leads”, but if you go to Etsy. I will send you curated work at home jobs that are hiring every day (Excluding Saturday and Sunday). It can get overwhelming having to look to find the openings, when you just need to be spending your energy on applying. I do all that work each week and post actual openings. When someone’s looking for a hard to find type of job and isn’t used to the juggle, makes it easier to have it all curated. Call me your curator!
“A river cuts through a rock not because of its power but its persistence.”
Jim Watkins, businessman
Some Tried and True go tos
Here are 3 companies that provide the option to make your own schedule. Being that it’s also a 1099, you get the flexibility of being your own boss, you also are not paid for training (your time is an investment) and you are responsible for your own taxes. So, keep this in mind. You’re getting flexibility, where you wouldn’t at a W2 job, but you do sacrifice some comforts such as “Job Security”. Also for these listings, there’s no real interview process.
Omni Interactions – Wonderful company. There are gigs listed often and some are long term gigs; while there are also others that are short term. It’s a wonderful place to get consistent work. Phone and non-phone gigs. Up to 40 hours is usually available on average and between $14 and $20 an hour depending on Metric requirements and hour requirements to attain increased pay. Hardwire is required with Ethernet.
Arise Platform – it’s a platform that gives you access to multiple clients to choose from. Ranging from phones to non-phones. Pay is between $12 and $15. You do pay for training, as it’s seen as an investment. You use a software that’s called ASD, which does detect if you have Wi-Fi on. You have to be hardwired with Ethernet for these clients.
For some of us, we want flexibility in when we work.
Here are 3 companies that provide the option to make your own schedule. Being that it’s also a 1099, you get the flexibility of being your own boss, you also are not paid for training (your time is an investment) and you are responsible for your own taxes. So, keep this in mind. You’re getting flexibility, where you wouldn’t at a W2 job, but you do sacrifice some comforts such as “Job Security”. Also for these listings, there’s no real interview process.
Omni Interactions – Wonderful company. There are gigs listed often and some are long term gigs; while there are also others that are short term. It’s a wonderful place to get consistent work. Phone and non-phone gigs. Up to 40 hours is usually available on average and between $14 and $20 an hour depending on Metric requirements and hour requirements to attain increased pay. Hardwire is required with Ethernet.
Hotel Planner – You do not pay for training. It’s 100% commission based. No clocking in, you just get on whenever you like. It is 100% on phones booking hotels. It’s recommended to use hardwire, but the system doesn’t prevent Wi-Fi from being used.
Arise Platform – it’s a platform that gives you access to multiple clients to choose from. Ranging from phones to non-phones. Pay is between $12 and $15. You do pay for training, as it’s seen as an investment. You use a software that’s called ASD, which does detect if you have Wi-Fi on. You have to be hardwired with Ethernet for these clients.
If you’d like more hand picked listings. I am offering curated work at home listings. No guarantees you’ll get hired, but the opportunity is huge!
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